Our Creed

We believe in emotional monogamy and sexual non-monogamy.


Everything we share is based on the perspective of our personal preferences and experiences.  We have a natural bias based on our intrinsic value system which may be noticed and misunderstood by those who don’t share that bias.


We are social swingers who feel a need to connect with prospective play partners before engaging with them.  However, we are not interested in developing exclusive relationships with others.  We want to maintain a circle of fun, trusted lifestyle friends while continuing to meet and interact with new people.


We don’t judge others who have a different approach to swinging.  However, we are not willing to alter our journey to gain an understanding of those differing approaches.


We are not professional counselors.  While we believe in sex positivity, we are not an authoritative voice for the sex-positive community.  We cannot possibly be a voice for everyone when our only source of knowledge is our own personal experience and perspective.


We intend for our message to resonate with those having similar life experience and values who are either in or potentially entering the lifestyle.  Not a “how to” resource but more of a “what if” resource that generates authentic conversation between couples to help them find their place in the lifestyle.

Living sexy is the lifestyle!