We are all guilty of creating false narratives—voices in our own  heads—as we consider approaching another couple in the lifestyle. Sometimes we don’t even give the other couple a chance because we are certain we already know how the story will end. We convince ourselves that they are out of our league, or they won’t find us attractive, or they will probably just reject us.



In this episode, we talk with our friends Andi and Dave from the lifestyle dating site Double Date Nation about how we can all recognize when we begin telling our own story and how to intervene to help create the true story!

As always, this episode of We Gotta Thing is presented in three segments:

Segment 1 | Keeping Up with the Joneses
Segment 2 | Voices In Our Heads
Segment 3 | Our Sexy Snapshots

If you enjoy this episode, be sure to check out all of our podcast episodes!

Want more We Gotta Thing content? Be sure to also check out our articles about swinging on Medium.

We are not experts or professionals; therefore, we don’t offer relationship advice or instructions. Our podcast episodes, blog posts, articles, and the content within and linked to this website are not intended as “how to” resources but rather “what if” information from our own perspective and based on our own experiences.

We are Mr. & Mrs. Jones, and we gotta thing goin’ on! The We Gotta Thing podcast began in 2014 as a way for us to chronicle our journey though the swinger lifestyle and share content that is meant to be interesting, useful, entertaining, and supportive of others who are in or considering entering the lifestyle. We have released an episode every month (with one exception) ever since, offering insight on relevant topics and sometimes comical glimpses into the ups and downs associated with being a married couple that swings, along with a sexy snapshots of our experiences.

If you listen straight through from Episode 1 to the present, you’ll undoubtably notice our growth as we navigate the journey. (You’ll also notice that our podcasting equipment and skills get a lot better after the first few episodes!)

You can listen to our podcast through this website, or wherever you listen to podcasts.