A Community of Support & Connection

Listening to our podcasts, following us on Twitter, and reading our articles about the swinger lifestyle will all help you move forward in your sex positive adventures, but joining the We Gotta Thing community can also help you make meaningful connections with others who seek social-sexy interaction. The WGT Community is a vital and growing group of couples and singles embracing the swinging lifestyle and supporting one another in the quest to explore and be our most authentic selves. The WGT community creates an environment to foster connections with others through both virtual and in-person interactions.

Three Ways to Join

Monthly Membership
$19 per month


Semi-Annual Membership
$99 every six months


Annual Membership
$189 per year


Membership subscriptions for the We Gotta Thing community are non-refundable but can be cancelled with no further payments. Cancelled memberships continue with full benefits until the purchased membership period has ended. See Payment FAQs.

Since we have joined the We Gotta Thing community, we have had a chance to meet some great people and everyone is so respectful, discreet, and fun. We really enjoy the regular, virtual meet and greets, too! It’s a way to stay connected and meet new couples. Some of our best LS friendships started with We Gotta Thing.

Community Membership Benefits

  • Exclusive access  to our members-only online forum (hosted using the MeWe social platform) — opportunity to meet, socialize, share ideas and  information with, and connect to like-minded couples, and regular interaction online with Mr. & Mrs. Jones.
  • Additional access to a number of online special interest sub-groups in the WGT forum, including ladies-only, men-only, BDSM, newbie, regional sub-groups, and more — each started and maintained by WGT community members.
  • Monthly live real-time video chats (hosted using Zoom) with WGT community members and the Joneses.
  • Monthly videocasts, featuring WGT community members talking with Mr. & Mrs. Jones about their lifestyle journey.
  • Access to WGT mini-courses.
  • Invitation to exclusive members-only in-person WGT events and travel opportunities.
  • Members-only discounts and giveaways.

We are long time members of WGT. We have found that it has greatly enhanced our communication with each other and deepened our love and respect for each other, strengthening our marriage immeasurably. It has given us opportunities to meet amazing people and develop a number of new friendships. Oh, and the increase in sexy fun between ourselves and others has been amazing.