So you think you’ve got what it takes to be ‘successful’ in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple must have to fully enjoy all the benefits of non-monogamy.
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Press Release- The Resort
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE We Gotta Thing Podcast Lands Exclusive Reveal of The Resort—A New Standard in Lifestyle Travel June 9, 2025 — We Gotta Thing, the globally acclaimed podcast hosted by Mr & Mrs Jones, is proud to announce that it has been selected as the exclusive media outlet to […]
Read MoreHow Is It Okay for Christians to Be Non-monogamous?
By “A Companion for the Journey”- a theologian, educator, and pastor who follows the Christian tradition and has found a home in the Ethically Non-monogamous (ENM) community There are a lot of rules in our society. It may seem that we have rules for everything. Some rules are in […]
Read MoreEpisode 132 | Our Differences Make Us Better
Why do we usually react to the word ‘different’ as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relationships. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this episode to help us understand how and why we react to something different and gives us tools to help explore them and turn those differences into opportunities for growth!
Read MoreEpisode 131 | Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community
What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation.
What are we then?
We are a community full of real people in real relationships who are looking to explore, learn, share and interact with others in a safe, non-judgmental and secure virtual environment.
Read MoreEpisode 130 | All About Swolly Relationships
Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that ‘squishy’ term that is a result of some combination of ‘swinging’ and ‘polyamory.’ She then discusses pro’s and con’s of what to expect when creating your own brand of ‘swolly’ and then shares tips on how to successfully communicate and navigate along the way.
Read MoreEpisode 129 | Taming the Voices Inside My Head
You’re awake again at 3:00am. You can’t go back to sleep. You caclulate how much sleep you’ll have if you go back to sleep right now. Then, while staring at the ceiling, a voice inside your head decides to make up a (absolutely truthful and believable) story about a missed opportunity with another couple and why they aren’t responding to your messages to meet again….
Sound familiar? In this episode Meshei from Expansive Connection helps us to understand where that voice is coming from, how to recognize the lack of logic in that voice and how to redirect the conversation to something more logical and accurate. Also, you are not the only one expriencing these very convincing voices!
Read MoreEpisode 128 | Enough With the Pineapples! How to Make Connections in the Wild
What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions.
Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don’t feel uncomfortable things we don’t want to feel. Additionally, trust is not using other people as our emotional security blankets.
Read MoreEpisode 127 | Trust: What It Is Not
What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions.
Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don’t feel uncomfortable things we don’t want to feel. Additionally, trust is not using other people as our emotional security blankets.
Read MoreEpisode 126 | The Many Flavors of Jealousy
Fearing or experiencing jealousy is one of the biggest reasons couples either don’t try the lifestyle or don’t last in the lifestyle. Why is that? It’s more complex than we realize! Join us as Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching helps us to understand the many flavors of jealousy to include envy, comparison, performance insecurities, fear of abandonment and many more.
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