Articles by Mr. Jones

Episode 138 | Describing the Lifestyle: Respectful, Pervy, Cool-Ass People

When we hear the word ‘swinger’ or ‘lifestyle’ the first time we may think of key parties, sleezy sex clubs, orgies with strangers and lots of perverted people who will have sex with anyone. With how non-monogamy is portrayed in some movies and television shows it’s not surprising that many of us have this perception!

During our most recent trip to Desire Riviera Maya we asked the couples to tell us how they would describe the world of non-monogamy to others and how that description has changed from their pre-lifestyle perceptions.

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Episode 136 | The Enneagram- Know Your Numbers!

Join us as Kel from Expansive Connection explains the Enneagram system which offers numerous benefits for personal and professional development by providing insights into motivations, behaviors, and relationships. It helps individuals understand their core personality type, strengths, weaknesses, and how they interact with others. This understanding can lead to improved self-awareness, better communication, stronger relationships, and a better connection with others in the lifestyle!

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Episode 135 | Origin Story: Going Deeper with Kurt & Vicki

This ‘Origin Story’ format episode features our friends Kurt & Vicki and highlights another unique journey into and through non-monogamy. Perhaps their story of working through issues will resonate with those who struggle with things from ‘the past’ and how previous life experiences can interfere with fully enjoying the lifestyle.

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Episode 134 | Facing the “What-ifs” Fears of Non-monogamy

Are you considering trying non-monogamy or perhaps learning how to navigate the swinging lifestyle environment? Are you paralyzed by the ‘what-ifs?’ What if my partner falls in love with someone else? What if I get jealous? What if no one is attracted to me? What if we are outed at swingers? 

You are not alone! Jason from Expansive Connection joins Mr & Mrs Jones to discuss how to better understand and work through these common ‘what-if’ fears shared by but also overcome by many.

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Episode 133 | 10 Attributes of Successful Swingers

So you think you’ve got what it takes to be ‘successful’ in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple must have to fully enjoy all the benefits of non-monogamy.

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Press Release- The Resort

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE We Gotta Thing Podcast Lands Exclusive Reveal of The Resort—A New Standard in Lifestyle Travel June 9, 2025  — We Gotta Thing, the globally acclaimed podcast hosted by Mr & Mrs Jones, is proud to announce that it has been selected as the exclusive media outlet to […]

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Episode 132 | Our Differences Make Us Better

Why do we usually react to the word ‘different’ as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relationships. Kel from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this episode to help us understand how and why we react to something different and gives us tools to help explore them and turn those differences into opportunities for growth!

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Episode 131 | Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community

What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation.

What are we then?

We are a community full of real people in real relationships who are looking to explore, learn, share and interact with others in a safe, non-judgmental and secure virtual environment.

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