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Social Before Sexual

If we reach out to them, they will assume we want to have sex with them. If we answer their message, they may take that as an indication that we’re all in. We’re not sure we’re in at all, yet. If we agree to meet up with them, we’ll be […]

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WGT Ladies’ Book Club

by Mrs. Jones A while back, by popular demand, the WGT Community ladies-only chat group expanded to include a semi-organized book club. Little did we know, when we first started to read and talk about books at the suggestion of some of our members, that this little endeavor would become […]

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Wooing Each Other with Words

content adapted from an interactive couples workshop presented by Elle Fusion during the 2019 WGT Austin Meet & Greet Weekend At the start of a new year, lots and lots of people make promises to themselves to begin (and stick with) a diary or journal. We would like to propose […]

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Out with the Old & In with the New

As we anticipate the start of a new year — following a year that has arguably been a pretty harrowing and unusual one in a  lot of ways — we begin to think about what habits and mindsets we might want to leave behind in 2020 and which ones we […]

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Enhancing vs Fixing

Long-time listeners have heard us say over and over again that we don’t recommend getting into the Lifestyle as a means of “fixing” a relationship that is less than ideal. It can be problematic, even disastrous, if one or both partner decides to partake of the Lifestyle in order to […]

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Risk Appetite

Risk. It may be a part of the reason some couples become attracted to the Lifestyle. We’re not talking about risk to health or well-being. We’re talking about the thrill of doing something others might consider taboo (maybe we once did too). We’re talking about the excitement of being daring […]

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The Suggestion of Sex

“Anastasia, stop biting your lip. It’s very distracting.”  Ever notice that some of the sexiest things people do, they somehow do without the intention of being sexy? Without really knowing they are being sexy at all? The way he lightly puts his hand on the small of her back when […]

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It’s Not a Race

One of Mrs. Jones’ favorite sayings is, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” If you look online, that quote often gets attributed to Theodore Roosevelt (though we doubt he meant it in the context of the Lifestyle). All the same, it applies aptly! Here’s the thing: It is great to […]

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