To quote Mrs. Jones: “We should be an example and not a blueprint.” It may seem natural to adapt OUR thing into your lifestyle journey, but that could be a mistake. OUR thing might not be YOUR thing. Giving yourselves an opportunity to create and refine your own thing while […]

Is it jealousy or envy when swinger friends get upset if you spend time with others? How about when one of you feels the other is having more fun? In Episode 94, we talk about “jealous” vs “envious.”

We discuss how being rejected by other swingers feels and what we can do to improve connection success in the swinger lifestyle!

We discuss the paramount importance of trust in the swinger lifestyle and the four different ways it is key to couples experiencing success.

In this podcast episode, we talk about moving past 4-way connections and provide tips on enjoying group play in the swinger lifestyle.

In this episode we discuss the inevitable mistakes that get made by swingers, but also how to minimize them and how to recover from them.

In this episode, we discuss how “normal” changes with time and experience in the swinger lifestyle. We call this normalization by exposure!

In this episode, we discuss the difficulties of being bi-something in the swinger lifestyle, and offer a challenge to our listeners.