Finding and choosing lifestyle events that fit your approach to swinging can be difficult and confusing. We share insights from couples facing the same challenges.

Listen in as our 2022 Desire Pearl event guests discuss working through their individual fear and anxiety during our week together at the famous clothing optional resort south of Cancun, Mexico.

We discuss why think it’s important to work through the issues together in order to experience personal growth and strengthen our relationships.

We discuss things we see as deal breakers to moving forward and possibly connecting with potential play partners.

We have learned that we must both put in the hard work over a period of time to experience all the swinger lifestyle has to offer. Listen to Episode 100 to find out what we mean by that!

We talk about the role of New Relationship Energy in the swinger lifestyle, exploring ways to consider it, address it, and benefit from it.

We chat with Fin & Emma (Normalizing Nonmonogamy) about their lifestyle community and the way such communities serve couples & singles.

To quote Mrs. Jones: “We should be an example and not a blueprint.” It may seem natural to adapt OUR thing into your lifestyle journey, but that could be a mistake. OUR thing might not be YOUR thing. Giving yourselves an opportunity to create and refine your own thing while […]