As newbies we started our lifestyle journey looking for people to connect with and then explore sexually. Back then it was all about the excitment, the taboo nature of the lifestyle and a boost to our sex lives. Something we would just keep at arms distance on the very periphery of our lives.

Then we started to meet some of the most amazing humans on the planet. Now we are surrounded by a warm and caring community and some of the best (pants-off and pants-on) lifelong friends a couple can possibly have.

We came for the sexy fun and we stayed for the awesome friendships!

Chris and Nancy share their amazing and unique story of finding the lifestyle through a period of intense emotional exploration after being together for more than 20 years. We’ve learned that no relationship journey into the lifestyle is the same but we so all experience our own twists and turns. We hope you enjoy listening to them tell their story!

Many couples ask about how to ‘successfully’ navigate a clothing optional resort. How do we find couples like us? How do we socialize with others without them thinking it’s an invitation to play? How do we let couples down if we don’t want to play? How do we interact with couples the day after we play?
Listen in as we discuss!

Listen in as we describe what we enjoyed and what we think still needs to be improved upon to bring it up to par with the Desire Pearl and Riviera Maya resorts in Mexico.

Join us as we dig deeper into what cliques really are and how to manage and navigate groups in an unfamiliar and sexually charged environment.

Hearing stories about how other couples discovered and explored the lifestyle can be reassuring to those trying to find their way. Listen as “J&B 2.0” share their funny and real stories about their journey.

Finding and choosing lifestyle events that fit your approach to swinging can be difficult and confusing. We share insights from couples facing the same challenges.

Listen in as our 2022 Desire Pearl event guests discuss working through their individual fear and anxiety during our week together at the famous clothing optional resort south of Cancun, Mexico.

We discuss why think it’s important to work through the issues together in order to experience personal growth and strengthen our relationships.

We discuss things we see as deal breakers to moving forward and possibly connecting with potential play partners.