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Episode 75 | Confronting Men’s Performance Issues

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety are often misunderstood by many in the lifestyle. Numerous couples experience this issue but don’t take the time to acknowledge, openly discuss, research and confront the issue head on. Normally us guys would rather get a prescription for a performance enhancing medicine but never […]

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Episode 74 | Health, Wellness, Hormones and the Lifestyle

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] As we all focus on staying well during this pandemic we thought it a good time to talk about a few health related issues and how they impact our lifestyle journey. “Mr Night” is a certified Family Nurse Practitioner of 20 years and is also a certified Bio-identical Hormone […]

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Episode 73 | Opposites Attract?

 We’ve all heard the term ‘opposites attract’ when talking about relationships. Does the same hold true when finding connections in the lifestyle? Do we search for people just like our partners or do we find ourselves attracted to those who are the opposite? Listen in as we discuss our […]

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Episode 71 | The Kiss and Tell Dilemma

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] In this episode we discuss the issue of ‘Kissing and Telling’ in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others to include the names of your play partners? Is there ever a good reason to […]

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Episode 70 | Desire 2019: Reflections by the Ladies

Listen in on our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they’ve had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle. Along the way the are discovering real transformation both in themselves and in relationships with […]

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Episode 69 | Consent: More Than Words

We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent.   As always, this […]

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Episode 68 | The ‘Social Sexy’ Lifestyle

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]

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Episode 67 | Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags

We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]

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Episode 66 | Discovering Your Lifestyle Tribe

When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtime we begin to realize how ‘human’ our lifestyle friends are and how these friendships are sometimes deeper, more meaningful and more […]

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