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Episode 65 | The Golden Rules of the Lifestyle

 Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]

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Episode 64 | Race in the Lifestyle

Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opinions and challenges around meeting and connecting with those of a different race. We Gotta Thing […]

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Episode 63: Lifestyle Chemistry 101

In this episode we discuss what “chemistry” in the lifestyle means to us and how it’s different from attraction.  Is chemistry between others instantaneous? Can chemistry with others fade over time? How is chemistry with lifestyle friends different from the chemistry between me and my spouse or partner? Listen in […]

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BONUS Episode 61 | Do You Know George?

 George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we’ve attended several and get many questions about these ‘mysterious’ lifestyle gatherings we thought it best for you to hear directly from George! From Burning Man to Cuba to London, Mexico City, […]

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Episode 60 | What’s Age Got to Do with It?

Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our “much younger friends” to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting with and even playing with couples who are much older or younger. We also break down age related stereotypes in the lifestyle. Is […]

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Episode 59 | Judgment in the Lifestyle

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Discussion Topic: We all have experiences of being judged.  However, we don’t often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge.  We discuss how we are wired and what influences in our lives may predispose us to our own personal […]

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Episode 58 | Out of Your Comfort Zone and into Paradise

 Discussion Topic:The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship.  But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Listen as we discuss the topic ourselves and then hear similar thoughts from others in a […]

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Episode 57 | Lifestyle Goals- What is Your Why?

 Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become addicted and always want more?  We discuss the importance of agreeing on “why” you are in […]

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Episode 56 | Seven Habits of Highly Successful Swingers

Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019!  Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!  

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