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Episode 55 | Finding Our Happy Place in the Lifestyle

 Discussion topic: In this episode we catch you all up to date on what we’ve been going through since we were “outed” as lifestyle podcasters 18 months ago.  Through all the turmoil we lost our “happy place” and share how we’ve grown and rediscovered each other.  Each person and couple […]

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Episode 54 | Drama in the Lifestyle

 Discussion topic:Most agree we’d like to avoid any drama in a lifestyle experience.  But is this a realistic expectation? Is drama such a bad thing? Do we know what drama really is and is not?  How should we handled drama if we encounter it in ourselves or another couple? […]

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Episode 53 | The Discretion Dilemma

 Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you but being vulnerable is necessary to connect socially to make true friends (with benefits) […]

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Episode 52 | Play Preferences: Newbies or Veterans?

 Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: we enjoy both! Mentioned this episode: Join our We Gotta Thing private members only group Listen to our podcast with the Spiritual Swingers Desire […]

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Episode 51 | Awkward Lifestyle Encounters

Discussion Topic- Whether it’s your very first play experience or you’ve been swinging for years awkward lifestyle encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some of our awkward lifestyle moments and discuss why they occur and what (if anything) can be done to avoid them […]

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Episode 50 | Reflecting on Our Lifestyle Journey

Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it’s the people we meet and the growth in our relationship that are most valuable. Care to join […]

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Episode 49 | What Men Need to Know About the Swinging Lifestyle

Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by “C” from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle. Mentioned this Episode: The Swinging Downunder podcast Our brand new We Gotta Thing website Our new “Members Only”subscription […]

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Episode 47 | Real Life Meets the Swinging Lifestyle

Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life.  Personally we are becoming more “out” as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on swinging and the lifestyle community seems to be growing rapidly.  What does this all mean? Listen in […]

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Episode 46 | Staying Connected During Play

Discussion Topic– Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve.  This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course […]

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