Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opinions and challenges around meeting and connecting with those of a different race. We Gotta Thing […]
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What is Compersion?
One of our community members, new to the Lifestyle, recently tweeted, “The first time I watched my husband fuck another woman, I was mesmerized & turned on to a degree I would never have predicted. Poor man I was with got neglected a bit while I watched.” We totally know […]
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Ingredients ½ cup brewed espresso 2 ounces Licor 43 Splash of half & half (optional) Instructions Add Licor 43 to an old fashioned glass filled with ice. Slowly pour freshly brewed espresso over the top. To float the espresso for a layered look, pour gently over the back of a […]
Read MoreEpisode 63: Lifestyle Chemistry 101
In this episode we discuss what “chemistry” in the lifestyle means to us and how it’s different from attraction. Is chemistry between others instantaneous? Can chemistry with others fade over time? How is chemistry with lifestyle friends different from the chemistry between me and my spouse or partner? Listen in […]
Read MoreAviation Cocktail
A true classic, a visual show-stopper, and a delicious drink! The Aviation Cocktail will impress any guests you may be entertaining. Invention of the Aviation Cocktail is credited to Hugo Ensslin, who was head bartender at NYC’s Hotel Wallick. The recipe appeared in Recipes for Mixed Drinks, published in 1916. In […]
Read MoreBONUS Episode 61 | Do You Know George?
George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we’ve attended several and get many questions about these ‘mysterious’ lifestyle gatherings we thought it best for you to hear directly from George! From Burning Man to Cuba to London, Mexico City, […]
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When it’s hot outside and the sun is shining, sometimes you just need a classic summer cocktail. 1 1/2 oz Vodka or White Rum 1 oz Peach Schnapps 1 1/2 oz Orange Juice 1 1/2 oz Cranberry Juice 1/4 tsp Vanilla Extract Combine first four ingredients in a cocktail shaker […]
Read MoreEpisode 60 | What’s Age Got to Do with It?
Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our “much younger friends” to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting with and even playing with couples who are much older or younger. We also break down age related stereotypes in the lifestyle. Is […]
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2 oz Bourbon 1/2 oz Cointreau 1/2 oz sweet vermouth 1/2 oz fresh lemon juice Luxardo cherries for garnish Lemon twist for garnish Combine all the liquid ingredients in a mixing glass three-quarters filled with ice, and stir until chilled, about 30 seconds. Strain into a chilled coupe glass. Garnish […]
Read MoreOrange Pomegranate Martini
Enjoy this lovely, refreshing take on the martini…with gorgeous color! 2 oz. vodka 1 oz. Cointreau 1 oz pomegranate juice ½ oz orange juice Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake thoroughly and strain into a martini glass.
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