We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent. As always, this […]
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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]
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We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]
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When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtime we begin to realize how ‘human’ our lifestyle friends are and how these friendships are sometimes deeper, more meaningful and more […]
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Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]
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We hear from many listeners how difficult it is to find that “four-way connection” with other lifestyle couples. We break down the issue and offer insights into what works and doesn’t work for us. Oh, and we share how we screwed up at NiN (the Joneses are not perfect).
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Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being “outed” as podcasters in the lifestyle. We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallout, what decisions we had to make and how we’ve decided to move forward. Snapshots: This month […]
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Keeping up with the Joneses “Friends” from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like. We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core […]
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Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some “tried and true” LS friends, an evening with our Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female! Discussion topic We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the […]
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Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a “unicorn”, an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than […]
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