We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent. As always, this […]
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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]
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We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]
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When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtime we begin to realize how ‘human’ our lifestyle friends are and how these friendships are sometimes deeper, more meaningful and more […]
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Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]
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Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opinions and challenges around meeting and connecting with those of a different race. We Gotta Thing […]
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In this episode we discuss what “chemistry” in the lifestyle means to us and how it’s different from attraction. Is chemistry between others instantaneous? Can chemistry with others fade over time? How is chemistry with lifestyle friends different from the chemistry between me and my spouse or partner? Listen in […]
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In this episode we talk with the creators of the brand new lifestyle website Double Date Nation, Dave and Andi. The four of us discuss our ideas and share our opinions on how best to create and optimize your lifestyle website profile to be most effective. We also interview them […]
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George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we’ve attended several and get many questions about these ‘mysterious’ lifestyle gatherings we thought it best for you to hear directly from George! From Burning Man to Cuba to London, Mexico City, […]
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Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our “much younger friends” to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting with and even playing with couples who are much older or younger. We also break down age related stereotypes in the lifestyle. Is […]
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