Archive for October, 2017


The Mapletini is a super sultry cocktail for autumn or winter! 2 oz Bailey’s Irish Cream 1 oz Brandy 1/2 oz Goldschlager (or cinnamon schnapps) 1 Tbsp. maple syrup Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake thoroughly and strain into a martini glass rimmed with brown sugar. Serve […]

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Episode 42 | (Not so) Great Expectations: Avoiding Disappointment

Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle.  With expectations usually comes disappointment.  Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifestyle or stir up negative emotions and feelings about yourselves.  We discuss how we TRY to manage our interactions with others and share some […]

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Alcohol bottles sitting on a table, drink poured.

Tango-Jones Martini

(A drink created by one of our listeners as a tribute to the hosts of the Two or More to Tango podcast and us here at We Gotta Thing. Thanks sexy friends!) 1.5 oz. Tito’s Vodka 1.5 oz. Licor 43 Splash pineapple juice Mix all ingredients in a shaker with […]

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We are NOT Swingers!!

We are NOT Swingers! When that’s how the message starts, I know what’s coming next: Dear Mr and Mrs Jones, We are NOT swingers! But…we are open minded. And we do have a great sex life, and we did have an MFM experience a few years ago, and we do […]

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Vampire’s Kiss Shots

“I vant to suck your….sweet, syrupy, sexy Halloween shot.” That’s how that goes, right?!   Ingredients: I cup raspberries, fresh or frozen (thawed) 2 Tbsp. sugar Vodka Baileys Irish Cream Chocolate Syrup Muddle 1 cup raspberries and 2 tablespoons sugar in a bowl until smooth. In a shaker with ice, […]

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Lifestyle Theme Nights and Costumes

Halloween, which is one of the premier lifestyle holidays, is quickly approaching. Many of us are frantically contemplating our costumes for the upcoming parties! The same costume challenge (or dilemma depending on how much you like to dress up) applies to visiting lifestyle clubs and resorts. Often times, they have […]

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