Articles by: Elle

New Orleans

Episode 38 | Finding that Elusive Four-way Connection

We hear from many listeners how difficult it is to find that “four-way connection” with other lifestyle couples. We break down the issue and offer insights into what works and doesn’t work for us. Oh, and we share how we screwed up at NiN (the Joneses are not perfect).

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The Irresistible Trap of Making Assumptions

I just knew we’d been “ghosted” and couldn’t wait to blog about being treated in such a disrespectful (yet somewhat amusing) way.  Mrs. Jones and I received an email from another couple on our personal local lifestyle dating site.  The message went something like this: “We really enjoyed what we […]

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Episode 36 | Friends With Benefits: The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?

Keeping up with the Joneses “Friends” from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like.  We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core […]

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The “Age Range” Barrier

I’ll never forget the time when as newbies we received a message from a couple on Kasidie inviting us out for dinner and drinks.  As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great and then I heard Mrs Jones gasp…”she’s the same age as our daughter, we can’t go […]

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