We hear from many listeners how difficult it is to find that “four-way connection” with other lifestyle couples. We break down the issue and offer insights into what works and doesn’t work for us. Oh, and we share how we screwed up at NiN (the Joneses are not perfect).
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Quality versus Quantity: How often do you have sex?
Mrs. Jones It is not unusual to hear the results of a nationwide survey saying that the average married couple has sex on average “fill in the blank” times per week. Does that mean if we don’t meet the quota of having sex two or three or four times per […]
Read MoreEpisode 37 | Our Worlds Collide: Outed as Lifestyle Podcasters
Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being “outed” as podcasters in the lifestyle. We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallout, what decisions we had to make and how we’ve decided to move forward. Snapshots: This month […]
Read MoreThe Irresistible Trap of Making Assumptions
I just knew we’d been “ghosted” and couldn’t wait to blog about being treated in such a disrespectful (yet somewhat amusing) way. Mrs. Jones and I received an email from another couple on our personal local lifestyle dating site. The message went something like this: “We really enjoyed what we […]
Read MoreEpisode 36 | Friends With Benefits: The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?
Keeping up with the Joneses “Friends” from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like. We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core […]
Read MoreEpisode 35 | Keepin’ it Real- Developing a Healthy Approach to the Lifestyle
Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some “tried and true” LS friends, an evening with our Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female! Discussion topic We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the […]
Read MoreThe “Age Range” Barrier
I’ll never forget the time when as newbies we received a message from a couple on Kasidie inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great and then I heard Mrs Jones gasp…”she’s the same age as our daughter, we can’t go […]
Read MoreEpisode 34 | Mr Jones and Me: A Guy’s Perspective on the Lifestyle
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a “unicorn”, an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than […]
Read MoreDealing with Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle – A Womans Perspective
Unfortunately, performance anxiety exists in the lifestyle. I’m not referring to a male diagnosed medical condition that can hopefully be treated with medication. The performance anxiety that I’m addressing is a temporary physical malfunction brought on by stress or possibly another factor such as alcohol consumption. We tout the lifestyle […]
Read MoreEpisode 33 | How Deep is Your Love?: How the Lifestyle Strengthens Our Relationship
We decided to share some tangible things we’ve experienced that prove to us (and hopefully you) that swinging can improve an already strong relationship.
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