Articles by: Elle

Episode 52 | Play Preferences: Newbies or Veterans?

 Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: we enjoy both! Mentioned this episode: Join our We Gotta Thing private members only group Listen to our podcast with the Spiritual Swingers Desire […]

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Episode 51 | Awkward Lifestyle Encounters

Discussion Topic- Whether it’s your very first play experience or you’ve been swinging for years awkward lifestyle encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some of our awkward lifestyle moments and discuss why they occur and what (if anything) can be done to avoid them […]

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Separate Play – My Shades of Gray

So, I’ve been listening to a few lifestyle podcasts lately – shocker!  But what’s notable here is that I have stumbled on a couple of episodes where the topic of discussion is separate play. My initial reaction was to think that these people are crazy.  That’s a slippery slope you’re […]

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I Am a Better Person Because I Am a Swinger!

A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog Post Many articles and blog posts talk about the benefits of being in the Lifestyle.  There are the obvious ones—really great, fun, exciting, and sometimes taboo sex; communication enhancements with your significant other; meeting new friends and experiencing a side of life that few […]

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Episode 50 | Reflecting on Our Lifestyle Journey

Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it’s the people we meet and the growth in our relationship that are most valuable. Care to join […]

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The Quest for Lifestyle Knowledge

Dear Mr & Mrs Jones, Are there any nice lifestyle clubs in our area? What is the best lifestyle website to use to meet people like us? How can we develop a network of lifestyle friends? How do couples with young children find time to swing? What lifestyle resources do […]

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Episode 49 | What Men Need to Know About the Swinging Lifestyle

Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by “C” from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle. Mentioned this Episode: The Swinging Downunder podcast Our brand new We Gotta Thing website Our new “Members Only”subscription […]

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