We discuss budgeting tips to help you afford the lifestyle & why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment in our relationship.

Married men, when we first enter the swinger lifestyle, often wonder “How do I know she is interested in me?” when meeting other couples.

Before entering the lifestyle, we never imagined doing some of the things we’ve actually done or learning some of the things we’ve learned.

In podcast episode 76, we discuss how to be authentic to who you are when society seems to demand otherwise.

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety are often misunderstood by many in the lifestyle. Numerous couples experience this issue but don’t take the time to acknowledge, openly discuss, research and confront the issue head on. Normally us guys would rather get a prescription for a performance enhancing medicine but never […]

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] As we all focus on staying well during this pandemic we thought it a good time to talk about a few health related issues and how they impact our lifestyle journey. “Mr Night” is a certified Family Nurse Practitioner of 20 years and is also a certified Bio-identical Hormone […]

 We’ve all heard the term ‘opposites attract’ when talking about relationships. Does the same hold true when finding connections in the lifestyle? Do we search for people just like our partners or do we find ourselves attracted to those who are the opposite? Listen in as we discuss our […]

A discussion of the voices in our own heads telling us another couple will not like us, even before we say hello (and what to do instead).

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] In this episode we discuss the issue of ‘Kissing and Telling’ in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others to include the names of your play partners? Is there ever a good reason to […]

Listen in on our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they’ve had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle. Along the way the are discovering real transformation both in themselves and in relationships with […]