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BONUS Episode 61 | Do You Know George?

 George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we’ve attended several and get many questions about these ‘mysterious’ lifestyle gatherings we thought it best for you to hear directly from George! From Burning Man to Cuba to London, Mexico City, […]

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Episode 60 | What’s Age Got to Do with It?

Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our “much younger friends” to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting with and even playing with couples who are much older or younger. We also break down age related stereotypes in the lifestyle. Is […]

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Episode 59 | Judgment in the Lifestyle

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Discussion Topic: We all have experiences of being judged.  However, we don’t often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge.  We discuss how we are wired and what influences in our lives may predispose us to our own personal […]

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Episode 58 | Out of Your Comfort Zone and into Paradise

 Discussion Topic:The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship.  But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Listen as we discuss the topic ourselves and then hear similar thoughts from others in a […]

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Episode 57 | Lifestyle Goals- What is Your Why?

 Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become addicted and always want more?  We discuss the importance of agreeing on “why” you are in […]

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Episode 56 | Seven Habits of Highly Successful Swingers

Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019!  Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!  

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Episode 55 | Finding Our Happy Place in the Lifestyle

 Discussion topic: In this episode we catch you all up to date on what we’ve been going through since we were “outed” as lifestyle podcasters 18 months ago.  Through all the turmoil we lost our “happy place” and share how we’ve grown and rediscovered each other.  Each person and couple […]

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Episode 54 | Drama in the Lifestyle

 Discussion topic:Most agree we’d like to avoid any drama in a lifestyle experience.  But is this a realistic expectation? Is drama such a bad thing? Do we know what drama really is and is not?  How should we handled drama if we encounter it in ourselves or another couple? […]

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Episode 53 | The Discretion Dilemma

 Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you but being vulnerable is necessary to connect socially to make true friends (with benefits) […]

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