To quote Mrs. Jones: “We should be an example and not a blueprint.” It may seem natural to adapt OUR thing into your lifestyle journey, but that could be a mistake. OUR thing might not be YOUR thing. Giving yourselves an opportunity to create and refine your own thing while […]
Read MoreEpisode 97 | Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing
To quote Mrs. Jones: "We should be an example and not a blueprint." It may seem natural to adapt OUR thing into your lifestyle journey, but that could be a mistake. OUR thing might not be YOUR thing.
Giving yourselves an opportunity to create and refine your own thing while learning from the examples of others in the lifestyle can be liberating and exciting.
As always, this episode of We Gotta Thing is presented in three segments:
Segment 1 | Keeping Up with the Joneses
Segment 2 | Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing
Segment 3 | Our Sexy Snapshots
If you enjoy this episode, be sure to check out all of our podcast episodes!
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We are Mr. & Mrs. Jones, and we gotta thing goin’ on! The We Gotta Thing podcast began in 2014 as a way for us to chronicle our journey though the swinger lifestyle and share content that is meant to be interesting, useful, entertaining, and supportive of others who are in or considering entering the lifestyle. We have released an episode every month (with one exception) ever since, offering insight on relevant topics and sometimes comical glimpses into the ups and downs associated with being a married couple that swings, along with a sexy snapshots of our experiences.
If you listen straight through from Episode 1 to the present, you’ll undoubtably notice our growth as we navigate the journey. (You’ll also notice that our podcasting equipment and skills get a lot better after the first few episodes!)
You can listen to our podcast through this website, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
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