Discussion Topic- Whether it’s your very first play experience or you’ve been swinging for years awkward lifestyle encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some of our awkward lifestyle moments and discuss why they occur and what (if anything) can be done to avoid them […]
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So, I’ve been listening to a few lifestyle podcasts lately – shocker! But what’s notable here is that I have stumbled on a couple of episodes where the topic of discussion is separate play. My initial reaction was to think that these people are crazy. That’s a slippery slope you’re […]
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Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it’s the people we meet and the growth in our relationship that are most valuable. Care to join […]
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Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say “just be confident” and you’ll be fine. But is that enough to be helpful? We offer tips to help you understand the difference and […]
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And just like that it was over. I spent days, weeks, months (maybe years?) fantasizing, researching, thinking, talking, planning and preparing for this much anticipated moment and then….poof. Gone. Done. Over. What just happened? Though the memory is just a blur now, in the moment it sure was fun (I […]
Read More Ugh. In some respects getting old sucks. Things start to hurt when I bend a certain way. There are permanent laugh lines on my face (aka wrinkles). And every once in a while, a gray hair has the nerve to stick straight up out of the part on the top […]
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Note: Dr “C” is a We Gotta Thing listener, a medical doctor AND in the lifestyle. This blog post is the second in a series on this topic and a new content feature we intend to expand upon in the future.- Mr & Mrs Jones In our last article, we […]
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Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life. Personally we are becoming more “out” as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on swinging and the lifestyle community seems to be growing rapidly. What does this all mean? Listen in […]
Read More Note: Dr “C” is a We Gotta Thing listener, a medical doctor AND in the lifestyle. This blog post is the first in a series on this topic and a new content feature we intend to expand upon in the future.- Mr & Mrs Jones It happens at least a […]
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Discussion Topic– Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course […]
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