One of the biggest barriers we all face as newbies or wannabies in the lifestyle is the fear of being “found out” by a co-worker, a friend or even worse, a family member! Just the thought of our parents or kids discovering our naughty little secret may dissuade many of […]
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Episode 32 | Swinger Fails: Learning From Those Inevitable Mistakes
Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times. Book on our website through our affiliate link […]
Read MoreSwinging Through the Holidays!
As we begin to celebrate our third holiday season in the Lifestyle we’re seeing things with a new perspective. Here are just a few things we’ve noticed: The third helping of turkey is like the third orgasm at a swinger party- both times you swore you were done after seconds. Lube […]
Read MoreEpisode 31 | You Are So Beautiful…to Me: Attractiveness in the Lifestyle
Keeping up with the Joneses Our new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think. We also share what sexy things we’ve been up to this month to include pushing a boundary by playing on the first date, enjoying our “Southwest Friends” again (in […]
Read MoreBonus Episode 30 | Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle: Our Conversation with Jay and Kay
Discussion Topic In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle. Jay and Kay from “That Couple Next Door” podcast join us to discuss a performance anxiety issue the four of us encountered when playing together. […]
Read MoreBreaking Down Jealousy and Insecurity
Being in the most secure relationship in the history of the world, I was taken by surprise after being personally ambushed by jealousy early in our lifestyle journey. I recall being confused and feeling as if I was being consumed by this heavy dark cloud and not knowing what was […]
Read MoreEpisode 29 | Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries: When to Make ’em and When to Break ’em
Keeping up with the Joneses A lifestyle “happy hour” with “sexy” lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with “new” lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with “old” lifestyle friends. Discussion topic We made mistakes early in our lifestyle journey by not understanding how to make rules. We’ve split “rule making” […]
Read MoreEpisode 28 | Desire Pearl 2016: No Explanation is Possible
Keeping up with the Joneses After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn’t go as well as we would’ve liked. Topic We talk about our week in paradise! After 14 months we finally get back to Desire […]
Read MoreBonus Episode 27 | Diversity in the Lifestyle: An Origin Story to Remember
Discussion topic Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage. If you think you know what an arranged marriage is you might want to listen and learn! They discuss how it all […]
Read MoreEpisode 26 | Hosting a House Party
Keeping up with the Joneses We share our “creed”: who we are, where we are coming from, why we share and the purpose of our podcast. We also share a sexy tale after a special visit from friends we met at Naughty in N’awlins! Discussion topic Finally! After months of […]
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