Now that we have examined the basics of the physiology of male sexual activity, and have examined the various causes of erectile dysfunction, what are the most successful treatments for erectile dysfunction? As with any physiologic problem, the first step to proper treatment is proper diagnosis. Of the causes of ED […]
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Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Part III: A Guest Post by Dr “C”
Since my last article a few months ago, I have had the opportunity to listen to the rest of the We Gotta Thing podcasts. There is an excellent discussion in Episode 30 in which Jay from That Couple Next Door podcast outlines a lot of the same ideas about erectile […]
Read MoreCurious About the Swinging Lifestyle? Five Things You Need to Know
Swinging is a Team Sport It’s not unusual for one partner (usually the guy) to become curious about the swinging lifestyle first without the other’s knowledge. When that person begins to research and wonder about what it might be like to try the lifestyle they may feel uneasy about broaching […]
Read MoreEpisode 51 | Awkward Lifestyle Encounters
Discussion Topic- Whether it’s your very first play experience or you’ve been swinging for years awkward lifestyle encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some of our awkward lifestyle moments and discuss why they occur and what (if anything) can be done to avoid them […]
Read MoreSeparate Play – My Shades of Gray
So, I’ve been listening to a few lifestyle podcasts lately – shocker! But what’s notable here is that I have stumbled on a couple of episodes where the topic of discussion is separate play. My initial reaction was to think that these people are crazy. That’s a slippery slope you’re […]
Read MoreI Am a Better Person Because I Am a Swinger!
A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog Post Many articles and blog posts talk about the benefits of being in the Lifestyle. There are the obvious ones—really great, fun, exciting, and sometimes taboo sex; communication enhancements with your significant other; meeting new friends and experiencing a side of life that few […]
Read MoreEpisode 50 | Reflecting on Our Lifestyle Journey
Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it’s the people we meet and the growth in our relationship that are most valuable. Care to join […]
Read MoreEpisode 48 | Which Comes First? Confidence and Courage in the Lifestyle
Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say “just be confident” and you’ll be fine. But is that enough to be helpful? We offer tips to help you understand the difference and […]
Read More“WTF Just Happened?” Your First Play Experience in the Swinging Lifestyle
And just like that it was over. I spent days, weeks, months (maybe years?) fantasizing, researching, thinking, talking, planning and preparing for this much anticipated moment and then….poof. Gone. Done. Over. What just happened? Though the memory is just a blur now, in the moment it sure was fun (I […]
Read MoreMy Age: Is it Really Just a Number?
Ugh. In some respects getting old sucks. Things start to hurt when I bend a certain way. There are permanent laugh lines on my face (aka wrinkles). And every once in a while, a gray hair has the nerve to stick straight up out of the part on the top […]
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