We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent. As always, this […]
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[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]
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We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]
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When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtime we begin to realize how ‘human’ our lifestyle friends are and how these friendships are sometimes deeper, more meaningful and more […]
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Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]
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I’ve heard that some people have rules about no kissing, that kissing is too intimate to share. I have this thought as I watch my beautiful wife passionately kissing her equally beautiful girlfriend. I’m glad we never discussed that rule. Watching these ladies kiss is both fascinating and arousing. Women […]
Read More A Guest Post By E.C. Kahn Meeting a new couple at a party, at a meet-and-greet, or on a first date, brings with it a certain feeling of electricity. Timeworn stories are fresh again. And, it’s always great when the connection extends beyond the bedroom. We’ve made some really […]
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A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog by “Our Pastor Friend” Is the swinging lifestyle compatible with Christianity? Well, if you ask this question in your Google search browser you’ll find out very quickly that many within the Christian community say “Absolutely not!” In addition to this, these practitioners of […]
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Discussion Topic– Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course […]
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Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live! Our new online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey is now available! We’ve created 6 modules and over 40 lessons to help you move into the through the lifestyle while having fun, growing your relationship and avoiding the pitfalls and mistakes. For more […]
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