” Often times when we meet or receive emails from couples for the first time we generally ask how they got into the lifestyle and how they like to engage with others or in other words we ask, “what’s your thing? Some couples somewhat sheepishly start by saying, “well, we’ve only […]Read More
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What to Wear on a Swinger Date
I was going through my closet the other day trying to find something to wear to dinner. I need to organize my closet a bit better to separate my work clothes from my casual clothes from my vanilla get-together clothes from my swinger date clothes. Whew…. That’s a lot to […]Read More
Quality versus Quantity: How often do you have sex?
Mrs. Jones It is not unusual to hear the results of a nationwide survey saying that the average married couple has sex on average “fill in the blank” times per week. Does that mean if we don’t meet the quota of having sex two or three or four times per […]Read More
Episode 37 | Our Worlds Collide: Outed as Lifestyle Podcasters
Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being “outed” as podcasters in the lifestyle. We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallout, what decisions we had to make and how we’ve decided to move forward. Snapshots: This month […]Read More
The “Age Range” Barrier
I’ll never forget the time when as newbies we received a message from a couple on Kasidie inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great and then I heard Mrs Jones gasp…”she’s the same age as our daughter, we can’t go […]Read More
Dealing with Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle – A Womans Perspective
Unfortunately, performance anxiety exists in the lifestyle. I’m not referring to a male diagnosed medical condition that can hopefully be treated with medication. The performance anxiety that I’m addressing is a temporary physical malfunction brought on by stress or possibly another factor such as alcohol consumption. We tout the lifestyle […]Read More
Swinging Through the Holidays!
As we begin to celebrate our third holiday season in the Lifestyle we’re seeing things with a new perspective. Here are just a few things we’ve noticed: The third helping of turkey is like the third orgasm at a swinger party- both times you swore you were done after seconds. Lube […]Read More