I just knew we’d been “ghosted” and couldn’t wait to blog about being treated in such a disrespectful (yet somewhat amusing) way. Mrs. Jones and I received an email from another couple on our personal local lifestyle dating site. The message went something like this: “We really enjoyed what we […]
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Episode 36 | Friends With Benefits: The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?
Keeping up with the Joneses “Friends” from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like. We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core […]
Read MoreEpisode 35 | Keepin’ it Real- Developing a Healthy Approach to the Lifestyle
Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some “tried and true” LS friends, an evening with our Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first experience with a single female! Discussion topic We discuss how we developed a healthy approach to the […]
Read MoreThe “Age Range” Barrier
I’ll never forget the time when as newbies we received a message from a couple on Kasidie inviting us out for dinner and drinks. As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great and then I heard Mrs Jones gasp…”she’s the same age as our daughter, we can’t go […]
Read MoreEpisode 34 | Mr Jones and Me: A Guy’s Perspective on the Lifestyle
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a “unicorn”, an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. Discussion topic Mrs Jones recently discovered the lifestyle changed Mr Jones more than […]
Read MoreDealing with Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle – A Womans Perspective
Unfortunately, performance anxiety exists in the lifestyle. I’m not referring to a male diagnosed medical condition that can hopefully be treated with medication. The performance anxiety that I’m addressing is a temporary physical malfunction brought on by stress or possibly another factor such as alcohol consumption. We tout the lifestyle […]
Read MoreEpisode 33 | How Deep is Your Love?: How the Lifestyle Strengthens Our Relationship
We decided to share some tangible things we’ve experienced that prove to us (and hopefully you) that swinging can improve an already strong relationship.
Read MoreThe Fear of Being Found Out
One of the biggest barriers we all face as newbies or wannabies in the lifestyle is the fear of being “found out” by a co-worker, a friend or even worse, a family member! Just the thought of our parents or kids discovering our naughty little secret may dissuade many of […]
Read MoreEpisode 32 | Swinger Fails: Learning From Those Inevitable Mistakes
Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you all for some sexy fun times. Book on our website through our affiliate link […]
Read MoreSwinging Through the Holidays!
As we begin to celebrate our third holiday season in the Lifestyle we’re seeing things with a new perspective. Here are just a few things we’ve noticed: The third helping of turkey is like the third orgasm at a swinger party- both times you swore you were done after seconds. Lube […]
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