Articles by adminjones

The Irresistible Trap of Making Assumptions

I just knew we’d been “ghosted” and couldn’t wait to blog about being treated in such a disrespectful (yet somewhat amusing) way.  Mrs. Jones and I received an email from another couple on our personal local lifestyle dating site.  The message went something like this: “We really enjoyed what we […]

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Episode 36 | Friends With Benefits: The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?

Keeping up with the Joneses “Friends” from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships and what they might look like.  We categorize friendships into four types: Community, Casual, Close and Core […]

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The “Age Range” Barrier

I’ll never forget the time when as newbies we received a message from a couple on Kasidie inviting us out for dinner and drinks.  As we were reviewing their profile everything was looking great and then I heard Mrs Jones gasp…”she’s the same age as our daughter, we can’t go […]

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The Fear of Being Found Out

One of the biggest barriers we all face as newbies or wannabies in the lifestyle is the fear of being “found out” by a co-worker, a friend or even worse, a family member!  Just the thought of our parents or kids discovering our naughty little secret may dissuade many of […]

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Swinging Through the Holidays!

As we begin to celebrate our third holiday season in the Lifestyle we’re seeing things with a new perspective.  Here are just a few things we’ve noticed: The third helping of turkey is like the third orgasm at a swinger party- both times you swore you were done after seconds. Lube […]

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