Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say “just be confident” and you’ll be fine. But is that enough to be helpful? We offer tips to help you understand the difference and […]
Read More
And just like that it was over. I spent days, weeks, months (maybe years?) fantasizing, researching, thinking, talking, planning and preparing for this much anticipated moment and then….poof. Gone. Done. Over. What just happened? Though the memory is just a blur now, in the moment it sure was fun (I […]
Read More
Ugh. In some respects getting old sucks. Things start to hurt when I bend a certain way. There are permanent laugh lines on my face (aka wrinkles). And every once in a while, a gray hair has the nerve to stick straight up out of the part on the top […]
Read More
Note: Dr “C” is a We Gotta Thing listener, a medical doctor AND in the lifestyle. This blog post is the second in a series on this topic and a new content feature we intend to expand upon in the future.- Mr & Mrs Jones In our last article, we […]
Read More
Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life. Personally we are becoming more “out” as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on swinging and the lifestyle community seems to be growing rapidly. What does this all mean? Listen in […]
Read More Note: Dr “C” is a We Gotta Thing listener, a medical doctor AND in the lifestyle. This blog post is the first in a series on this topic and a new content feature we intend to expand upon in the future.- Mr & Mrs Jones It happens at least a […]
Read More
Discussion Topic– Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course […]
Read More
by Mr Jones We hear a lot about mistakes couples (including us) make AFTER getting into the lifestyle, but we don’t talk much about how a lack of knowledge and experience BEFORE entering the lifestyle contributes to those mis-steps. Part of our mission at We Gotta Thing as swinging lifestyle […]
Read More For the first 18 months of our lifestyle journey, Mr Jones and I were a soft swap couple. We didn’t feel the need to “progress” to full swap just so that we could check it off of some mystical lifestyle list. Playing with other couples without the added complications that […]
Read More
Discussion Topic- Navigating this lifestyle can be awkward at times, especially when trying to transition from conversation to playtime. We discuss our experience in this area and share some tips to help couples take the leap to enjoying some sexy fun with others! Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live! Our […]
Read More