Articles by: Elle

We are No Ken and Barbie

We see this popular phrase over and over again in online profiles on lifestyle dating websites.  It’s meant to send a reassuring message to prospective couples that “we aren’t perfect and you don’t need to be either.”  It’s a nice thing to hear since many of us perceive our own […]

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Choose to Become Who You Are

We all are expected to play many roles in life: spouse, parent, child, colleague, employee, parishioner, student, teacher, friend, lover and, well you get it.  If you stop and think about it (and I’m cursed with this affliction) we are programmed by others about how to “act” or “behave” in […]

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Episode 43 | Seven Sexy Swinger Sins

Announcing our special project Mrs Jones and I are developing an online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey to be released in December 2017! We’ve created 6 modules and over 30 lessons to help you move into the through the lifestyle while having fun, growing your relationship and avoiding the […]

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“What’s in It for Me?“

A Blog Post by Mrs Jones I never planned to become a swinger. I was a “good girl,” and good girls don’t do crazy stuff like those swingers do. So why did I agree to give it a try four years ago when Mr Jones and I stumbled onto swinging […]

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Episode 42 | (Not so) Great Expectations: Avoiding Disappointment

Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle.  With expectations usually comes disappointment.  Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifestyle or stir up negative emotions and feelings about yourselves.  We discuss how we TRY to manage our interactions with others and share some […]

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We are NOT Swingers!!

We are NOT Swingers! When that’s how the message starts, I know what’s coming next: Dear Mr and Mrs Jones, We are NOT swingers! But…we are open minded. And we do have a great sex life, and we did have an MFM experience a few years ago, and we do […]

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Lifestyle Theme Nights and Costumes

Halloween, which is one of the premier lifestyle holidays, is quickly approaching. Many of us are frantically contemplating our costumes for the upcoming parties! The same costume challenge (or dilemma depending on how much you like to dress up) applies to visiting lifestyle clubs and resorts. Often times, they have […]

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