If you’re not into green beer on St. Paddy’s Day, try this refreshing drink to celebrate! 1.5 oz. Vodka 1 oz. St. Germaine Elderflower liqueur 1 oz. lime juice 1 drop of green food coloring (optional) Sparkling water Combine first four ingredients over ice in a highball glass. Top with […]
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If you’re not into green beer on St. Paddy’s Day, try this refreshing drink to celebrate!
1.5 oz. Vodka 1 oz. St. Germaine Elderflower liqueur 1 oz. lime juice 1 drop of green food coloring (optional) Sparkling water
Combine first four ingredients over ice in a highball glass. Top with sparkling water and garnish with a slice of lime or cucumber.
Understanding Erectile Dysfunction Part I: A Guest Post from Dr “C”
Note: Dr “C” is a We Gotta Thing listener, a medical doctor AND in the lifestyle. This blog post is the first in a series on this topic and a new content feature we intend to expand upon in the future.- Mr & Mrs Jones It happens at least a […]
Read MoreOrange Mule
Ingredients 2 oz. Deep Eddy’s Orange Vodka 2 oz. orange juice 4 oz. ginger beer (non-alcoholic) juice of 1/2 lime orange slices optional: basil for garnish Instructions Combine all ingredients in a copper mug (or any glass) Add ice and stir Garnish with orange slice and basil
Read MoreEpisode 46 | Staying Connected During Play
Discussion Topic– Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge of and some helpful tips for staying connected as a couple during playtime with others. Online Lifestyle Course […]
Read MoreLove Potion Martini
Perfect for Valentine’s Day! (Of course, every day is Valentine’s Day at the Jones house!) Ingredients 2 oz. vodka 1 oz. peach schnapps 2 oz. ruby red grapefruit juice Instructions Rim a martini glass with pink sugar if desired. Set aside. Add ice to cocktail shaker, then add all ingredients. […]
Read More12 Mistakes Couples Make BEFORE Entering the Swinging Lifestyle
by Mr Jones We hear a lot about mistakes couples (including us) make AFTER getting into the lifestyle, but we don’t talk much about how a lack of knowledge and experience BEFORE entering the lifestyle contributes to those mis-steps. Part of our mission at We Gotta Thing as swinging lifestyle […]
Read MoreFrench Manhattan
2 oz Woodford Reserve 1 oz Chambord Liqueur 1 dash Bitters Maraschino cherry Shake ingredients in a shaker with ice and strain into an ice-filled rocks glass. Garnish with a cherry.
Read MoreSoft Swap or Full Swap?
For the first 18 months of our lifestyle journey, Mr Jones and I were a soft swap couple. We didn’t feel the need to “progress” to full swap just so that we could check it off of some mystical lifestyle list. Playing with other couples without the added complications that […]
Read MoreHomemade Bailey’s Irish Cream
½ cup heavy cream ½ cup half and half 14 oz. can sweetened condensed milk 1⅔ cup Irish whiskey (I used Jameson’s) 1 teaspoon instant coffee 2 tablespoons chocolate syrup 1 teaspoon vanilla 1 teaspoon almond extract Combine all ingredients in a blender and set on high speed for 30 […]
Read MoreEpisode 45 | Closing the Deal: Transitioning to Playtime
Discussion Topic- Navigating this lifestyle can be awkward at times, especially when trying to transition from conversation to playtime. We discuss our experience in this area and share some tips to help couples take the leap to enjoying some sexy fun with others! Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live! Our […]
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