Please don’t get me wrong (especially you ladies out there), there is nothing more beautiful to the eye than a woman’s body. One of THE most amazing views the lifestyle affords is the opportunity to behold women enjoying the physical and emotional pleasure only the female body can experience. It […]
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Episode 40 | Myth Busting Clothing Optional Resorts- Desire Pearl 2017
Discussion Topic– Many couples approaching the lifestyle consider clothing optional resorts as a first step on their journey. This episode we tackle some commonly held beliefs and fears regarding clothing optional resort vacations. Just back from another trip to Desire Pearl, we use our experiences from the week to “bust […]
Read MoreMy Summer Vacation
As kids are heading back to school, we grown-ups are settling back into our routines and reflecting on our summer vacation fun. (And counting the days until our next opportunity to get away and escape reality.) Mr. Jones and I just returned home from our summer vacation at Desire Pearl […]
Read MoreMy Cold and Pseudoephedrine Fueled Sex Dream
Written by “D” from the Swinging Downunder Podcast Verse 1 After a long day relaxing in the Mexican sunshine, wearing nothing but a hat and sunscreen, it was time for our first dinner in the restaurant at Desire RM. As C and I moved into the restaurant The Jones’s were […]
Read MoreWe Aren’t Who You Think We Are
(A Cautionary Tale) You haven’t met us yet, but you think we are a perfect fit. Yes, you viewed our profile several times along with our public and private pictures. You read about our playstyle preferences. You read our likes and dislikes, you read our description of ourselves and you […]
Read MoreLiquid Courage
If you’ve listened to our podcast or read our newsletter, you probably know that I love to make cocktails. Our liquor cabinet is embarrassingly well-stocked. Listeners send me new recipes to try on a regular basis. I have a collection of pretty martini glasses, wine glasses, old-fashioned glasses (for Mr. […]
Read MoreEpisode 39 | Finding Your Flirt in the Lifestyle
Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We update you on our new business ventures and Mr Jones makes his request to Mrs Jones for his home office modifications. We also describe a visit from our Canadian friends, our Southwest friends […]
Read MoreFinding Your Thing
” Often times when we meet or receive emails from couples for the first time we generally ask how they got into the lifestyle and how they like to engage with others or in other words we ask, “what’s your thing? Some couples somewhat sheepishly start by saying, “well, we’ve only […]
Read MoreWhat to Wear on a Swinger Date
I was going through my closet the other day trying to find something to wear to dinner. I need to organize my closet a bit better to separate my work clothes from my casual clothes from my vanilla get-together clothes from my swinger date clothes. Whew…. That’s a lot to […]
Read MoreHey, Don’t Take it Personally…
Based on emails we receive and our own experiences two of the biggest fears lifestylers have are 1) having to say “we’re not interested” and 2) being told “we’re not interested.” Let’s start with “we’re not interested.” This is so difficult for some they choose to go ahead and interact […]
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