Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]
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by Elle One day, after listening to a few podcast episodes, I texted Mr. Jones with a gripe. “I don’t like the term vanilla,” I whined. “It reminds me of gringo or haole or gai-jin.” They all mean outsider and carry the negative connotations of cluelessness and lack of validity. […]
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by Elle Word reached my ears through the proverbial grapevine. “Did you hear?” the Grapevine called me up and asked. Did I hear what? “The real reason Mrs. Jones retired,” said the Grapevine, “is because she and Mr. Jones are (decrease voice to whisper for maximum effect, insert dramatic […]
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A simple answer to this question could very well be the “holy grail” for both those already in or curious about the swinging lifestyle. Shouldn’t be too difficult, right? Finding swingers in public? After all, we know “they” are out there somewhere. Come to think of it “they” could be […]
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Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you but being vulnerable is necessary to connect socially to make true friends (with benefits) […]
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We tend to get overzealous a bit. Sometimes. Let’s face it guys, the smallest hint of the possibility of having sex messes us all up (technical term). We get a suggestive text, we see a sexy picture, we smell a new perfume, we see some cleavage or the top of […]
Read More I’ve heard that some people have rules about no kissing, that kissing is too intimate to share. I have this thought as I watch my beautiful wife passionately kissing her equally beautiful girlfriend. I’m glad we never discussed that rule. Watching these ladies kiss is both fascinating and arousing. Women […]
Read More A Guest Post By E.C. Kahn Meeting a new couple at a party, at a meet-and-greet, or on a first date, brings with it a certain feeling of electricity. Timeworn stories are fresh again. And, it’s always great when the connection extends beyond the bedroom. We’ve made some really […]
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A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog by “Our Pastor Friend” Is the swinging lifestyle compatible with Christianity? Well, if you ask this question in your Google search browser you’ll find out very quickly that many within the Christian community say “Absolutely not!” In addition to this, these practitioners of […]
Read More The fact that this popular Google swinger search phrase begins with “what” instead of “who” tells us how much work there is to be done to educate the general population when it comes to understanding the swinging lifestyle. Most people get can’t get beyond the “what” we (sometimes) do to […]
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