Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!
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By Elle You ever send a text and then immediately wish you could un-send it? You sit there more-or-less holding your breath, staring near-maniacally at your screen, waiting for the animated dot-dot-dot to tell you someone on the other end is mid-reply? No? Yeah…yeah, totally. Me neither. “I hear […]
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by Elle Word reached my ears through the proverbial grapevine. “Did you hear?” the Grapevine called me up and asked. Did I hear what? “The real reason Mrs. Jones retired,” said the Grapevine, “is because she and Mr. Jones are (decrease voice to whisper for maximum effect, insert dramatic […]
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Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you but being vulnerable is necessary to connect socially to make true friends (with benefits) […]
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We tend to get overzealous a bit. Sometimes. Let’s face it guys, the smallest hint of the possibility of having sex messes us all up (technical term). We get a suggestive text, we see a sexy picture, we smell a new perfume, we see some cleavage or the top of […]
Read More I’ve heard that some people have rules about no kissing, that kissing is too intimate to share. I have this thought as I watch my beautiful wife passionately kissing her equally beautiful girlfriend. I’m glad we never discussed that rule. Watching these ladies kiss is both fascinating and arousing. Women […]
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A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog by “Our Pastor Friend” Is the swinging lifestyle compatible with Christianity? Well, if you ask this question in your Google search browser you’ll find out very quickly that many within the Christian community say “Absolutely not!” In addition to this, these practitioners of […]
Read More Now that we have examined the basics of the physiology of male sexual activity, and have examined the various causes of erectile dysfunction, what are the most successful treatments for erectile dysfunction? As with any physiologic problem, the first step to proper treatment is proper diagnosis. Of the causes of ED […]
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Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: we enjoy both! Mentioned this episode: Join our We Gotta Thing private members only group Listen to our podcast with the Spiritual Swingers Desire […]
Read More Swinging is a Team Sport It’s not unusual for one partner (usually the guy) to become curious about the swinging lifestyle first without the other’s knowledge. When that person begins to research and wonder about what it might be like to try the lifestyle they may feel uneasy about broaching […]
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