Articles by: Elle

Episode 71 | The Kiss and Tell Dilemma

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] In this episode we discuss the issue of ‘Kissing and Telling’ in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others to include the names of your play partners? Is there ever a good reason to […]

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Growing in Confidence

by Mr. Ygk My name is Mr. Ygk. I am part of a long time swinging couple. I am now in my mid 40’s (ok, late 40’s). Gender roles were not like they are now in the 70’s. Boys were supposed to act like boys and girls were supposed to […]

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Episode 70 | Desire 2019: Reflections by the Ladies

Listen in on our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they’ve had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle. Along the way the are discovering real transformation both in themselves and in relationships with […]

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Beyond Bros

by Catherine of Expansive Connection Coaching Why I am launching a guys group course… I am lucky that I have always had wonderful, complex, deep and supportive female friendships in my life. These women have laughed with me, cried with me, pushed me, pulled me, supported me, and time and […]

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Episode 69 | Consent: More Than Words

We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent.   As always, this […]

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Episode 68 | The ‘Social Sexy’ Lifestyle

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]

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Unexpected LS Event Benefits

by WGT Community Member You may not know this about lifestyle weekend events, but many couples find that — along with all of the fun and sexiness of a multi-day event — some pretty deep emotions and discussions can arise. You may leap to the conclusion of “jealousy,” and that […]

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Episode 67 | Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags

We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]

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Our Kids Think We Are Acting Weird

by Swinger Parents Recently, my husband and I were called out by our 13-year-old daughter about being too affectionate with each other lately. In her words, we’ve been “acting weird.”   She may have a point. There have been some changes in the way we behave with each other since starting […]

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