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“What’s in It for Me?“

A Blog Post by Mrs Jones I never planned to become a swinger. I was a “good girl,” and good girls don’t do crazy stuff like those swingers do. So why did I agree to give it a try four years ago when Mr Jones and I stumbled onto swinging […]

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We are NOT Swingers!!

We are NOT Swingers! When that’s how the message starts, I know what’s coming next: Dear Mr and Mrs Jones, We are NOT swingers! But…we are open minded. And we do have a great sex life, and we did have an MFM experience a few years ago, and we do […]

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Lifestyle Theme Nights and Costumes

Halloween, which is one of the premier lifestyle holidays, is quickly approaching. Many of us are frantically contemplating our costumes for the upcoming parties! The same costume challenge (or dilemma depending on how much you like to dress up) applies to visiting lifestyle clubs and resorts. Often times, they have […]

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Guy Confession: I’m Not into Pictures

Please don’t get me wrong (especially you ladies out there), there is nothing more beautiful to the eye than a woman’s body.  One of THE most amazing views the lifestyle affords is the opportunity to behold women enjoying the physical and emotional pleasure only the female body can experience.  It […]

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My Summer Vacation

As kids are heading back to school, we grown-ups are settling back into our routines and reflecting on our summer vacation fun.  (And counting the days until our next opportunity to get away and escape reality.)  Mr. Jones and I just returned home from our summer vacation at Desire Pearl […]

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We Aren’t Who You Think We Are

(A Cautionary Tale) You haven’t met us yet, but you think we are a perfect fit.  Yes, you viewed our profile several times along with our public and private pictures.  You read about our playstyle preferences.  You read our likes and dislikes, you read our description of ourselves and you […]

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Liquid Courage

If you’ve listened to our podcast or read our newsletter, you probably know that I love to make cocktails.  Our liquor cabinet is embarrassingly well-stocked.  Listeners send me new recipes to try on a regular basis.  I have a collection of pretty martini glasses, wine glasses, old-fashioned glasses (for Mr. […]

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Finding Your Thing

” Often times when we meet or receive emails from couples for the first time we generally ask how they got into the lifestyle and how they like to engage with others or in other words we ask, “what’s your thing? Some couples somewhat sheepishly start by saying, “well, we’ve only […]

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What to Wear on a Swinger Date

I was going through my closet the other day trying to find something to wear to dinner.  I need to organize my closet a bit better to separate my work clothes from my casual clothes from my vanilla get-together clothes from my swinger date clothes.  Whew….  That’s a lot to […]

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