by Mrs. Jones One of the most common requests of all the messages I receive from ladies in the lifestyle is information on how to better please their partners. The ladies often ask me to recommend resources on blow job techniques (probably because I have talked about reading blow job […]
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By Elle You ever send a text and then immediately wish you could un-send it? You sit there more-or-less holding your breath, staring near-maniacally at your screen, waiting for the animated dot-dot-dot to tell you someone on the other end is mid-reply? No? Yeah…yeah, totally. Me neither. “I hear […]
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A simple answer to this question could very well be the “holy grail” for both those already in or curious about the swinging lifestyle. Shouldn’t be too difficult, right? Finding swingers in public? After all, we know “they” are out there somewhere. Come to think of it “they” could be […]
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Spoiler alert: Love has everything to do with my marriage and nothing to do with swinging. . . Well, now that I’ve said it, can I get back to my cup of coffee? But wait you say, you are having sex with others. How can that act successfully fit into […]
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We tend to get overzealous a bit. Sometimes. Let’s face it guys, the smallest hint of the possibility of having sex messes us all up (technical term). We get a suggestive text, we see a sexy picture, we smell a new perfume, we see some cleavage or the top of […]
Read More The fact that this popular Google swinger search phrase begins with “what” instead of “who” tells us how much work there is to be done to educate the general population when it comes to understanding the swinging lifestyle. Most people get can’t get beyond the “what” we (sometimes) do to […]
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Now that we have examined the basics of the physiology of male sexual activity, and have examined the various causes of erectile dysfunction, what are the most successful treatments for erectile dysfunction? As with any physiologic problem, the first step to proper treatment is proper diagnosis. Of the causes of ED […]
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Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: we enjoy both! Mentioned this episode: Join our We Gotta Thing private members only group Listen to our podcast with the Spiritual Swingers Desire […]
Read More Since my last article a few months ago, I have had the opportunity to listen to the rest of the We Gotta Thing podcasts. There is an excellent discussion in Episode 30 in which Jay from That Couple Next Door podcast outlines a lot of the same ideas about erectile […]
Read More Swinging is a Team Sport It’s not unusual for one partner (usually the guy) to become curious about the swinging lifestyle first without the other’s knowledge. When that person begins to research and wonder about what it might be like to try the lifestyle they may feel uneasy about broaching […]
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