When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtime we begin to realize how ‘human’ our lifestyle friends are and how these friendships are sometimes deeper, more meaningful and more […]
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First Time at a Swinger Club
by The Nubile Newbies We were headed out of town to visit friends and family, and planned to also meet-up for dinner and drinks with new LS friends we’d met online and had been chatting with for some time. They asked if we might like to also join them at […]
Read MoreEpisode 64 | Race in the Lifestyle
Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opinions and challenges around meeting and connecting with those of a different race. We Gotta Thing […]
Read MoreEpisode 59 | Judgment in the Lifestyle
[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Discussion Topic: We all have experiences of being judged. However, we don’t often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge. We discuss how we are wired and what influences in our lives may predispose us to our own personal […]
Read MoreI Am a Better Person Because I Am a Swinger!
A We Gotta Thing Guest Blog Post Many articles and blog posts talk about the benefits of being in the Lifestyle. There are the obvious ones—really great, fun, exciting, and sometimes taboo sex; communication enhancements with your significant other; meeting new friends and experiencing a side of life that few […]
Read MoreThe Quest for Lifestyle Knowledge
Dear Mr & Mrs Jones, Are there any nice lifestyle clubs in our area? What is the best lifestyle website to use to meet people like us? How can we develop a network of lifestyle friends? How do couples with young children find time to swing? What lifestyle resources do […]
Read MoreEpisode 49 | What Men Need to Know About the Swinging Lifestyle
Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by “C” from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle. Mentioned this Episode: The Swinging Downunder podcast Our brand new We Gotta Thing website Our new “Members Only”subscription […]
Read MoreCoconut Martini
2 oz. Coconut Vodka 1 oz. Vanilla Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Cacao 1 oz. Half and Half Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake thoroughly and strain into a martini glass.
Read MoreChoose to Become Who You Are
We all are expected to play many roles in life: spouse, parent, child, colleague, employee, parishioner, student, teacher, friend, lover and, well you get it. If you stop and think about it (and I’m cursed with this affliction) we are programmed by others about how to “act” or “behave” in […]
Read MoreLemon Drop Martini
2 oz Vodka 1 oz Limoncello 1/2 oz Lime juice 1 oz Sweet and sour mixer Combine ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice. Shake thoroughly and strain into a martini glass rimmed with lemon sugar. Garnish with a strip of lemon zest.
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