It’s January, the month of making resolutions to try new things and better ourselves. A lot of people start flocking to the gym or yoga studio. And of course there’s the ever-popular weight-loss resolutions. Those are fine and even laudable (especially if they become habits). But we thought we’d offer […]
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Quick Tips for Better Intimate Photos
by Ess Hey folks! First of all, I can’t wait to meet those of you who will be joining us at the Nashville We Gotta Thing Meet & Greet later this month! I’m looking forward to hosting a conversation about intimate portraiture and how it can enhance the connection between […]
Read MoreOur Kids Think We Are Acting Weird
by Swinger Parents Recently, my husband and I were called out by our 13-year-old daughter about being too affectionate with each other lately. In her words, we’ve been “acting weird.” She may have a point. There have been some changes in the way we behave with each other since starting […]
Read MoreFirst Time at a Swinger Club
by The Nubile Newbies We were headed out of town to visit friends and family, and planned to also meet-up for dinner and drinks with new LS friends we’d met online and had been chatting with for some time. They asked if we might like to also join them at […]
Read MoreWhat is Compersion?
One of our community members, new to the Lifestyle, recently tweeted, “The first time I watched my husband fuck another woman, I was mesmerized & turned on to a degree I would never have predicted. Poor man I was with got neglected a bit while I watched.” We totally know […]
Read More5 Keys to Enjoying a Swingers Club
A blog post by Mr Jones After several years of being in the lifestyle and hosting a lifestyle podcast one of the biggest inconsistencies we’ve personally observed and also heard about from our listeners is the wide range of experiences and opinions regarding swinger clubs. Let’s face it, the swinging […]
Read MoreHow to Be an Awesome Lover
by Mrs. Jones One of the most common requests of all the messages I receive from ladies in the lifestyle is information on how to better please their partners. The ladies often ask me to recommend resources on blow job techniques (probably because I have talked about reading blow job […]
Read MoreHow Do We “Find” Other Swingers? By Mr Jones
A simple answer to this question could very well be the “holy grail” for both those already in or curious about the swinging lifestyle. Shouldn’t be too difficult, right? Finding swingers in public? After all, we know “they” are out there somewhere. Come to think of it “they” could be […]
Read MoreWhat’s Love Got to Do with It? by Mrs Jones
Spoiler alert: Love has everything to do with my marriage and nothing to do with swinging. . . Well, now that I’ve said it, can I get back to my cup of coffee? But wait you say, you are having sex with others. How can that act successfully fit into […]
Read MoreJust Be Cool Guys…(Use Your Secret Weapon) by Mr Jones
We tend to get overzealous a bit. Sometimes. Let’s face it guys, the smallest hint of the possibility of having sex messes us all up (technical term). We get a suggestive text, we see a sexy picture, we smell a new perfume, we see some cleavage or the top of […]
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