We all agree that consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle, but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent only. In episode 69, we talk about consent for swinger sex by using words but also through non-verbal cues…as well as giving yourself consent. As always, this […]
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Episode 68 | The ‘Social Sexy’ Lifestyle
[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Topic– Some people are either put off by the term “swinger” or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We’ve decided to use the term ‘Social Sexy’ to describe how we view and engage with others in the world of ethical non-monogamy. Mentioned: Our friend “Ess” is a […]
Read MoreEpisode 67 | Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags
We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to you becoming a red flag to other couples. Listen in as we work […]
Read MoreQuick Tips for Better Intimate Photos
by Ess Hey folks! First of all, I can’t wait to meet those of you who will be joining us at the Nashville We Gotta Thing Meet & Greet later this month! I’m looking forward to hosting a conversation about intimate portraiture and how it can enhance the connection between […]
Read MoreLove Letter Cocktail
Ingredients 1 oz. Bourbon ½ oz. Cointreau 7 dashes Angostura bitters 7 dashes Peychaud’s bitters Sparkling Wine Luxardo cherry for garnish Directions Mix first four ingredients in a cocktail mixing glass filled halfway with ice. Gently stir to mix ingredients. Strain into a chilled coupe glass and top with 2-3 […]
Read MoreOur Kids Think We Are Acting Weird
by Swinger Parents Recently, my husband and I were called out by our 13-year-old daughter about being too affectionate with each other lately. In her words, we’ve been “acting weird.” She may have a point. There have been some changes in the way we behave with each other since starting […]
Read MoreWatermelon Margaritas
Looking for a sexy way to cool off on a hot summer day? This’ll do the trick! Ingredients (makes 2 drinks): 6 oz fresh watermelon juice 4 oz tequila (silver or reposado) 2 oz triple sec 2 oz fresh lime juice 2 tsp agave syrup Salt for rimming glass Fresh […]
Read MoreEpisode 65 | The Golden Rules of the Lifestyle
Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines “inside the bedroom” but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The importance of Confidentiality, Respect and Honesty with ourselves and others should seem evident but in […]
Read MoreElle’s Homemade Luxardo Cherries
We have a good friend who makes and gifts delicious homemade Luxardo cherries for our cocktails. Now you can use her recipe. Ingredients ½ cup granulated sugar ½ cup water 2 tsp lemon juice 1 cinnamon stick 1 vanilla bean, scraped (or 1 tsp vanilla extract) ¼ tsp ground nutmeg […]
Read MoreEpisode 56 | Seven Habits of Highly Successful Swingers
Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!
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