[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text] Discussion Topic: We all have experiences of being judged. However, we don’t often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge. We discuss how we are wired and what influences in our lives may predispose us to our own personal […]
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Episode 58 | Out of Your Comfort Zone and into Paradise
Discussion Topic:The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship. But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Listen as we discuss the topic ourselves and then hear similar thoughts from others in a […]
Read MoreParadise Cocktail
2 oz Ketel One Botanicals Grapefruit Rose Vodka 3/4 oz Chambord Sparkling wine (I used Prosecco) Basil leaf Pour vodka and Chambord into a cocktail shaker filled with ice. Shake well and strain into a champagne flute. Top with sparkling wine. Garnish with a basil leaf.
Read MoreEpisode 57 | Lifestyle Goals- What is Your Why?
Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become addicted and always want more? We discuss the importance of agreeing on “why” you are in […]
Read MoreCandy Cane Martini
Candy Cane Martini 1.5 oz. Vanilla Vodka 1.5 oz. White Chocolate Liqueur (such as Godiva) 1 oz. Peppermint Schnapps Whipped cream Candy cane Combine first three ingredients in a cocktail shaker filled with ice. Shake thoroughly and strain into a martini glass. Add whipped cream on top and garnish with […]
Read MoreFriends on the Fringe, Part 3: From the Fringe into the Fray
by Elle One day, after listening to a few podcast episodes, I texted Mr. Jones with a gripe. “I don’t like the term vanilla,” I whined. “It reminds me of gringo or haole or gai-jin.” They all mean outsider and carry the negative connotations of cluelessness and lack of validity. […]
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2 ounces Hendricks Gin 1 ounce Cointreau 1 ounce fresh lemon juice Luxardo cherries Pour gin, Cointreau, and lemon juice into a cocktail shaker filled with ice cubes. Shake well and strain into coupe glass. Drop one cherry into the glass and slowly pour one teaspoon cherry juice into drink […]
Read MoreEpisode 56 | Seven Habits of Highly Successful Swingers
Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey’s Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire Pearl the week of November 16-23, 2019! Book your trip here. Join our Members Only community here!
Read MoreHow to Be an Awesome Lover
by Mrs. Jones One of the most common requests of all the messages I receive from ladies in the lifestyle is information on how to better please their partners. The ladies often ask me to recommend resources on blow job techniques (probably because I have talked about reading blow job […]
Read MoreGhost-tini
Nobody in the Lifestyle likes to be “ghosted,” but you won’t mind so much if the ghost is this frighteningly vanilla vodka drink that’s full of delicious boos. Ingredients 2.5 oz. Vanilla Vodka 2 oz. Godiva White Chocolate Liqueur 1 oz. White Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Half-n-Half 2 […]
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